The Power of Your Words

A surrendered marriage begins with surrendered hearts—and surrendered hearts produce surrendered lips. When we allow Christ to transform the way we speak, our words become instruments of grace, bringing life and encouragement to the person we promised to love. Our marriages become a reflection of the gospel as we choose words that honor God and strengthen one another.

Discussion Questions:

Icebreaker: One phrase my spouse says all the time is...

1.   Are you naturally someone who talks a lot, or someone who would rather listen?

2.   Read Ephesians 4:29. What does "building up" look like in everyday marriage conversations?

3.   Can silence be destructive? Can silence ever be wise? What's the difference?

4.   Read Luke 6:45. If we want to build our spouse up, we must ask God to examine our hearts. What do you believe your words you use towards your wife reveal about your heart in times of frustration?

5.   Read Psalm 19:14 right before you pray as a group.