The Battle Within

Every marriage faces a battle that begins within the heart. Our desires, if surrendered to Christ, can become a reflection of His goodness—but when they are ruled by the flesh, they can lead us away from God and damage the covenant we promised to protect. The enemy knows our weaknesses and often uses our natural desires to pull us away from God's design for our lives and marriages. The good news is that we have a Savior who understands our struggles. Jesus faced every temptation yet remained without sin. 

Turn-to Verses:

Galatians 5:17

Genesis 3:1-5

Genesis 3:6-7

James 1:13

James 1:14

James 1:15

1 Corinthians 10:13

Colossians 3:5-8

Romans 5:17

Related:

Romans 7:13-25

Matthew 4:1-11

Romans 5:12-17

Romans 6:23

Ephesians 4:27

Genesis 4:9, 13

Numbers 16

Joshua 7

2 Samuel 11-12

Discussion Questions:

Icebreaker: If you could have one thing delivered to your house right now, what would you order?

1.   Not all desires are sinful. What are some desires that can start out as good or normal but become unhealthy when we overdo it or they become too important to us?

2.   Read James 1:13-15. Where in that progression do you think we have the greatest opportunity to stop the process?

3.   According to Psalm 37:4, Psalm 40:8, and Galatians 5:16, how can our desires be reshaped to desire what He wants for our lives and marriages?

4.   You know your spouse intimately. Because you’re on the same team against sin, what is one thing you can do to encourage or help your spouse when they are being tempted?