Ministers of Reconciliation

Feb 12, 2026 • Mike McLeod

Paul teaches that spiritual growth does not happen accidentally. God has entrusted His servants with the responsibility of proclaiming Christ, teaching truth, and laboring faithfully so that believers may mature in their faith. Marriage is not merely about happiness, compatibility, or survival—it is a sacred partnership designed to form Christlikeness in both spouses and to display His glory to the world. God uses the covenant of marriage as a refining ground where selfishness is confronted, love is deepened, and couples can intentionally labor toward spiritual maturity together.

Verses Used:

Colossians 1:24-29

Colossians 1:24

Philippians 1:29

2 Corinthians 4:16-17

2 Corinthians 1:5

Colossians 1:25

Matthew 14:15-21

2 Corinthians 12:9

Matthew 28:19-20

Colossians 1:26

Genesis 3:15

Colossians 1:27

1 Timothy 2:3-4

Discussion Questions:

Icebreaker: Describe how you’re feeling today using just one word.

1. What has been one unexpected way marriage has helped you grow spiritually?

2. Why do you think “Christ in you” is the foundation of hope, rather than better behavior or stronger communication alone? Do you tend to look for hope outside of Christ?

3. Paul emphasizes proclaiming and teaching Christ in Colossians 1:28. How can spouses encourage one another spiritually without becoming critical or preachy?

4. Paul rejoices in suffering because it serves a greater purpose. What helps you keep an eternal perspective during hard seasons in marriage?

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